- Take 10 slow, deep breaths. In through your nose, out through your mouth. Do the Karate Kid hand motions too if you like.
- Read this next sentence to yourself out loud, and BELIEVE IT. "I am in control of my emotions, and I contol my own reality". Do not question this. Do not just pass it off as some touchy feely mumbo jumbo. BELIEVE IT!
- Keep saying that to yourself and go get yourself a glass of ice water, then read on.
Who am I? I'm just an average guy like you who has girlfriend problems. I'm not a relationship expert, and I'm not a psychologist. But I AM someone who recently got dumped, then learned what needed to be done to win her back. I also shared what I learned with a couple buddies of mine, and they were also successful in getting their girlfriends back. (yes I have quite a few friends who are good at getting dumped lol) So here I am writing this blog......hopefully I can help a few of you poor souls by explaining how I figured out how to get back my girlfriend.
Ok, down to business. I'm going to give you the single, most important piece of advice for you to use right now and you absolutely have to trust me on this. DO NOT contact your ex in any way, shape or form! No calling, no texting, no e-mailing, no comments on myspace, facebook, etc. Do not bump into her out somewhere "accidentally" and do not relay messages to her through other people. Do not contact her AT ALL!!
At least half of you will ignore this and contact your ex anyway. Don't be one of those people, you will be digging your own grave! I know this will be very hard to do, but you came here for some advice right? Just do this and trust me for a while.
The reason you need to avoid contacting your ex right now is because you are an emotional wreck. If you try to contact her, you will say or do the wrong thing and screw up your chances, I guarantee it! Before you take any action, you absolutely need to be in the proper state of mind or you will come off as desperate or needy.......and trust me, you DO NOT want this. The only way you will get your ex back is by ATTRACTING her, not acting like a lonely and depressed wussy! Think about it, is telling her how sad and lonely you are going to make you seem attractive to her? NO!!!! So you have to go against your instincts to whine, cry, beg, plead and whatever unattractive behavior you feel compelled to do. When you just get dumped, it's really hard to NOT do anything like this and it will slip out one way or another. That's why you just have to avoid contact with her for now.
Now here's the good news! You attracted her once right? So that means you have it in you to do it again! I'll bet anything that you don't act the same way now as when you first got together with your ex, and that's most likely the reason why you got dumped, because you stopped being the attractive person that got her in the first place. So basically what you will need to do is start acting like the guy you were when you first started dating, and stop doing whatever you did to make her lose attraction for you.
Like I said, I am not an expert, so rather than try to rehash what I learned and try to explain it all to you myself, I'm going to point you straight to the source of information that showed me how to get back my girlfriend.
When I got dumped, I scoured the internet for help just like you are right now and bought a ton of ebooks on winning back ex girlfriends. A lot of these books weren't of much help, but a few were extremely useful, and were the key to winning back my girlfriend. So what I'm going to do here is give my personal reviews on 3 top notch books that I read and save you a lot of time looking on the internet. Hopefully I will be getting those reviews up here within the next few days so check back soon.
In the meantime.......DO NOT contact your ex!!!! It's gonna suck, I know, but you have to keep cool for now so you don't do anything stupid. Hang out with your buddies, work some overtime, anything to distract yourself from thinking about your ex. I will get those reviews up here ASAP, so hang tight for just a little while....help is on its way!
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my boyfriend of two years let me for another girl because i accuse him of seen another girl and since then i have been trying to get him but he refuse to come back to me,he was not responding to my call or email and he even unfriend me in facebook and he told me that he is done with me.i was searching on the internet for help and i saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so i decided to give it a try and i contacted him and i explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell for me and guarantee me of 2days that my ex will come back to me and to my greatest surprise the third day a great miracle fell on me and my ex come back to me on the two days and he beg me for forgivenes, i will continue to publish his name because he is my Savior and we are about to get married.if you need him to help you Email ogalalovespell@gmail.com
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ReplyDeleteBE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT MAMA ANITA SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $380 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $380 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PMTHAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MAMA ANITA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT MAMA ANITA (mama.anitaspellcraft@hotmail.com) website http://kelvinlargemyself.wix.com/anita
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, Am just short of words i don't know what to say, am so grateful to Dr Eziza for what he has done for me. At first i thought he was a scam like two others that i worked with, but i just decided to contact him then he told me that my lover will be back home within 72 hours. When the 72 hours completed my husband called me and said he was sorry for the frequent argument and fight, i was so happy that my husband who left me for over 2 years called me. Now we are together he can't do without me, he always wants me to be by his side and he just bough me a new car. If you want to contact him for help, his email is ezizaoguntemple@gmail.com or +2348058176289
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